How to Find a Romantic Hotel
When you’re planning the most romantic getaway, the hotel is so much more than just a place to sleep. It’s where you finally spend time together on one of your first nights as newlyweds, where the vibe of your whole trip starts. It’s where you share those little moments that make you both go, “Wow, is this real life?” The right hotel sets the tone for everything—letting you relax, unwind, and just be together.
But finding that perfect hotel? Not always so simple.
So, let’s break it down. Here’s what I look for when helping couples find the ideal spot for their romantic escape:
The View
You know that feeling when you wake up, roll over, and the first thing you see is the sun rising over the ocean, a serene lake, or a stunning mountain view? That’s the vibe you’re chasing when planning a romantic getaway. Big windows are a must—so you can soak in the view whether it’s morning coffee in bed or a quiet moment in the evening with a glass of wine. A room with a view isn’t just an added bonus; it’s an essential part of creating that atmosphere where you can fully relax and enjoy each other’s company.
But here’s the thing: not all hotel rooms are created equal, and trust me, not all room categories guarantee those Instagram-worthy views. This is where working with a travel designer can make all the difference, ensuring you get the perfect room to match your vision of a dreamy escape.
Take Hotel Il San Pietro on the Amalfi Coast, for example. This romantic place to stay has been featured 10 times as a reader’s choice on Condé Nast Traveler. Every room offers sweeping views of the Tyrrhenian Sea. Picture this—waking up to the sound of waves crashing against the cliffs, the endless blue Mediterranean stretching out before you. It’s the kind of view that shapes the entire mood of your trip.
Or let’s hop over to Greece, where the cliffside views at Cosme Hotel Paros will make you feel like you’ve stepped into a postcard. Imagine sitting together, gazing out at the Aegean Sea, the sun casting a golden glow over the water. It’s the kind of serene moment that makes you pause, take a deep breath, and truly connect.
Now, for something a bit different—Santorini is known for its iconic views, but if you’re looking for a quieter escape while still soaking in something special, Vedema Luxury Resort is where it’s at. It might not have the caldera views you’d expect from Santorini, but it offers a more removed, peaceful setting. Think of it as the best of both worlds—you get the quiet and seclusion, but still have easy access to the island’s famous tourist spots. Sometimes, the unexpected views end up being the most memorable.
Image courtesy of Ca’ P’a: Casa Private, Amalfi Coast
And then there’s Casa Privata on the Amalfi Coast sigh. Now this one is truly an experience. Exclusive and ultra-secluded, this boutique retreat is surrounded by lemon and olive groves with unobstructed views of the open sea. The pool isn’t private but feels incredibly secluded, with four platforms scattered around, each with sunbeds and a parasol, all enveloped by aromatic lavender, rose bushes, and jasmine hedges.
How to Find a Romantic Hotel with Room Service
Ever checked into a stunning hotel, slipped into that plush robe, and realized... there’s no room service? Instant buzzkill. On a romantic getaway, sometimes the best thing you can do is stay in, right? Picture this: A quiet, intimate dinner in your room, just the two of you, no interruptions, no one else around. Room service isn’t just about convenience—it adds this next-level coziness and intimacy that’s hard to beat.
Pro tip: Always double-check that your hotel actually offers room service before you book.
Now, if you’re lucky enough to stay at IL Falconiere Relais & Spa, you’ll be in foodie heaven. Their dinner and tasting menus are chef’s kiss and trust me, their room service will take your stay from great to WOW!
Spa Vibes
What does "romantic hotel" mean? When it comes to a romantic getaway, a spa day (or two) is non-negotiable. Whether it’s a couples’ massage, soaking in a private jacuzzi, or lounging with a glass of champagne in hand, having access to a spa takes your stay from great to unforgettable. A good spa doesn’t just help you relax, it elevates the whole experience, giving you both the chance to unwind and reconnect in a way that everyday life doesn’t always allow.
Personally, I’m a sucker for hotels with thermal baths. There’s just something about the warmth of a natural hot spring that makes the stress melt away—especially when you’re sharing that moment with your person.
If you love thermal baths, Fonteverde Spa in Tuscany should be on your radar for a honeymoon or romantic getaway. This adults-only resort, located 30 minutes south of Florence, sits on natural thermal pools and is open year-round—rare for Tuscan resorts. Imagine soaking in the healing waters after a day spent exploring vineyards, with the Tuscan hills as your backdrop. It’s pure magic and the perfect way to end a day of exploring the nearby vineyards or countryside.
Looking for something with a more wellness-focused vibe? Terme di Relilax near Venice is the spot. Just 30 minutes from Vicenza and an hour from Verona, this spa hotel goes beyond the usual massages and saunas. It’s all about holistic wellness here, making it the perfect retreat after the whirlwind of wedding planning. Think detox programs, personalized health treatments, and plenty of time to relax in their thermal baths. It’s a full mind-body reset.
But what if you’re short on time or want to combine a city escape with some serious R&R? That’s where Palazzo Castri 1874 in Florence comes in. I stayed here for a few nights this spring, and let me tell you, it’s the perfect little urban spa oasis. With a cozy indoor/outdoor pool, ice waterfall, sauna, and steam room, it’s everything you need for a relaxing getaway right in the heart of the city. Plus, they offer a range of massages that’ll leave you floating on air. Whether you’re winding down after a day of sightseeing or just need a spa day in the middle of it all, this boutique hotel is such a great option.
How to Find a Romantic Hotel with Private Balconies or Pools
Privacy is everything when it comes to romantic getaways. A room with a private balcony or plunge pool? Absolutely. There’s something special about having a quiet moment outside with your partner, watching the sunset with no one else around. It’s intimate, it’s luxurious, and it’s one of those details that take your experience to a whole new level. When we are designing your dream adventure, we will pull out all the stops to make sure that your romantic hotel has everything that is important to you! And then some!
Image courtesy of Passalacqua, Lake Como
And let me tell you, there’s no shortage of hotels offering stunning balcony views or private pools—it was honestly tough narrowing down this list. But a few properties really stand out.
For a true splurge property where you’ll feel like you’ve entered your own world, Passalacqua on Lake Como is a dream. This hotel is the epitome of luxury, offering rooms with breathtaking views of the lake. The property feels so private and serene, you might find it hard to leave (but honestly, why would you want to?).
Over on the Italian Riviera, you’ve got Excelsior Palace Hotel in Rapallo, just outside the hustle of Cinque Terre and a gem not often mentioned in must visit guides. If you’re looking to avoid the crowds while still soaking in those iconic Italian coastal views, this is the spot. Go for a Deluxe Suite or higher to secure that balcony view overlooking the sea. Just note, this hotel leans into a more traditional Italian style, which adds to its charm but might not be for everyone.
And if it’s island vibes you’re after, Cascioni Eco Retreat in Sardinia offers private pools for that extra layer of exclusivity. The serene setting, combined with the natural beauty of Sardinia, makes it perfect for couples wanting both privacy and nature’s beauty.
Tub or Rain Shower?
You’re either a tub or a rain shower person. (Kidding! You can totally be both.) But seriously, when it comes to what do couples want in a hotel, having a luxurious soaking tub or an indulgent rain shower can make all the difference. A tub is perfect for those long, relaxing soaks together—throw in some candles, a glass of wine, and you’ve got the perfect setup. If showers are more your thing, then a spacious rain shower with high-end bath products can still feel just as indulgent and intimate.
Image courtesy of Palazzo Daniele, Puglia
If you want something truly unique, check out Palazzo Daniele in Puglia. Located in the quiet village of Gagliano del Capo, this place feels more like an art gallery than a hotel. The rain shower in the Royal Junior Suite is an art installation in itself, cascading from a nearly 20-foot-high ceiling into a basin designed by Italian artist Andrea Sala. It’s an experience all on its own and makes your stay feel like a private work of art.
How to Find a Romantic Hotel with Splurge-Worthy Extras
For couples who want it all, Borgo Egnazia in Puglia is another splurge-worthy pick. This place really does have it all—a stunning spa, pools, and that quintessential Italian charm. Set amidst olive groves, it’s perfect for those who want luxury and seclusion all in one. I have couples wondering if can you ask a hotel to make a room romantic? Absolutely! As your boutique travel company, we handle the logistics, the romantic details, and the unsexy side of planning, so you can step back and indulge in experiences that feel effortless, meaningful, and entirely YOU.
As a self-proclaimed hotel aficionado, I live for helping couples find the perfect luxurious stay. From breathtaking views to private pools and spa days, I know what takes a hotel from "nice" to a true experience. The right hotel isn’t just a place to rest your head—it’s a key part of your entire trip, shaping the atmosphere and creating space for all those connection moments with your person.
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